Does your man still love you, or is it time to hit the world of online dating to see if you can find love hidden away on the web’s thousands of dating site facilities?
Following on from yesterdays article, where we asked about love and quality time, we conclude with the bedroom test to see if your man still retains his ardour or whether your relationship’s all become a bit of a flop.
Let’s get physical
And the ultimate test – how is he performing in the bedroom?
Does he put the time and effort in when you’re making love for the interaction to be about the two of you? Does he only come on to you after his couple of beers have turned into several and Stella Artois is driving his ardour?
Or even outside of the bedroom, do you feel secure when he holds you, or do you only get hugs when he needs to feel warmth and affection?
When written in black and white, these sentiments seem obvious. But they are so hard to face that many women just carry on, regardless.
Don’t be that woman. We all need to feel loved – it is one of our key motivators to stave off depression and keep ourselves upbeat in our daily lives.
If this is you, or you are looking across thousands of dating site profiles to see if you can find men who exhibit traits of personality that entrust you to them to provide you with the necessary love you crave, put these (potential) lovers to the test before you go on a date with them, to see if they are rue to their word or just all mouth and no trousers.
You know what you’re looking for – devise a few questions to truly examine your existing man and see if the love is still there, but just buried by an unassociated issue that you can both deal with to eradicate and let your love flow. Or, be true to yourself if the answers are negative, what you’ve grown to expect, and it really is time to take your head out of the sand, admit that you’re going nowhere and try to find yourself a man, in real life or test the water on a dating site, and start afresh.
There are literally thousands, nay millions, of men waiting to give love a good home for the right woman on UK dating sites and right around the world. Or, if you don’t want to give up just yet, our next article will be on getting your man and keeping him, after the imminent festivities.
Merry Christmas and here’s to a properous New Year, with the right man in tow, of course!
And thank you, all the readers, for getting us on page one of Google – ya-hey! We love you – there’s more to come in 2012 – dating.org.uk will rock your dating world, next year!