Another new dating site has surfaced and, perhaps rather predictably, it has just released a survey into its customers dating preferences.
Part of the survey carried out by new website datewithamate.com looked at the effect that friends’ approval had on dating behaviour.
Clients were asked if they were concerned if their friends approved of their new boyfriend or not and what they would do if they did not.
Nearly 1200 people were surveyed and one assumes that they were all single females.
Surprisingly, a majority seemed to be very concerned that their friends liked their boyfriend and approved of the relationship. 89% said that they were bothered about their friends’ feelings, while a lot less – 59% were bothered about what their boyfriend’s own friends thought about their relationship.
The survey was carried out by the new dating site because, according to the founder, Luke Pomaro, they wanted to know more about their client base and what made them tick.
More facts and figures revealed in the survey included the fact that 12% said that they would dump a boyfriend if their friends did not approve, which showed that their friends’ opinion counted a little more than their mum’s, because only 7% said that they would end a relationship if mum did not approve!
Datewithamate.com is a “double dating” website, which means that it arranges dates with a friend. Perhaps it is no surprise, Mr Pomaro said, that anybody who signed up to the new site would take their friends’ opinions seriously in terms of choice of who to date.
However, Mr Poimaro was a little shocked at the number of people who took their friendship with their friends more seriously than their friendship with their boyfriend.
He said that while it was fine to take one’s friends thoughts into consideration, it was important not to take them so seriously that it would cause the relationship to end.
He said that any healthy relationship depended on what the two people themselves thought about each other, rather than what other people thought.